Thursday, 31 May 2012

Theatre is his life- Klaas Motebejane


AT 21 he was frustrated about which career he should follow!He loved acting and always wanted to work on radio.But by then he had already enrolled for his National Diploma in Journalism at Techikon Northern Gauteng, now called Tshwane University of Technology, and was doing his first year.
Klaas Motebejane (32) never fulfilled his love for theatre and his ability to produce, write plays, direct and act until he got his first breakthrough in directing a production.This young man from Phalaborwa, Limpopo, and now staying in Tshwane, said while he was doing his first year in 1997, he and his friends did a stage play called The Truth Will Out in Joburg.
We got an award,because there were only three groups that took part on the day, and from that time, I never looked back,” said Klaas.While he was still a youngster in Phalaborwa, he acted in community groups and loved acting, and now his love for acting has paid off. Klaas, who holds a journalism diploma, co-owns Mikateko Yanga Productions with Tshepo Matlala.
They produced the final staging of the controversial nude play Cards by Mpumelelo Paul Grootboom . Speaking about why he choose theatre and didn’t follow his career as a journalist, he said: “While I was studying, I made money through the jobs I did in acting and thought of following that path.”Being involved in other drama societies helped him develop more skills in his work. In 2000, he worked with a community group in Mamelodi called the Usuthu Cultural Group.He also does international plays and has appeared in the drama series Hillside, where he played a sangoma .Next month the stage manager and producer will tour Holland and Switzerland with the group that performs Relativity, by Mpumelelo Paul Grootboom. And in September he will visit Berlin, Germany.

Wednesday, 30 May 2012

What annoys in a relationship?

Today's topic what are some of the things that annoy men about women in a relationship? And ladies what are some of the things that annoy you about men in a relationship?

Tuesday, 29 May 2012

RICH AND SUCCESSFUL LADIES

GUYS: are you intimidated by a girl who has her own? Would you have the guts to ask out a girl who might be a little richer than you? Or do you not even look in her direction?

Ladies: does it seem like the more success you have the less guys approach you?
 

Monday, 28 May 2012

Challenges Facing Modern Families

Families today face unique challenges that were not on the spectrum before computers and smart phones took over the world. Families spend less quality time together, and when they are together that quality time is usurped by our 24/7 access to media, internet and social networking sites.

Quality time means more than just being in the same place…

Parents are spending time with their kids but are not giving them their full attention. The parents themselves are constantly checking their phones, taking incoming calls and then wondering why their kids are acting out. Parents should try and lead by example. We hear many parents complaining that they cannot get their kids off their cell phones, only to see the parents exhibiting the exact same behavior.

Initiate “no cell phone” time for everyone, parents included!

Some families have seen success initiating family time that means no cell phones allowed for anyone, parents included. Gather the family together and go to a local park, the beach or an activity that you all enjoy – and leave the cell phones behind. Connect with your kids on a meaningful level by showing them that they have YOUR undivided attention.

Higher rates of depression and anxiety in children…

Mental health professionals are reporting higher rates of depression and anxiety in children. Childhood depression is a recognized disorder, as is childhood anxiety. Children feel isolated and alone due to a lack of real connection with those closest to them. They face huge pressure at school and then come home to parents who are not hearing them. They seek refuge in their cell phones. We see children as young as 4 years of age with smart phones. By the time they are 12 they have seen and done almost everything.


Top Ten Issues Facing Families Today

1.  Materialism: "The placing in high regard of ownership and consumption as a family priority."
2.  Balance of Work and Family: "The rising pressure to invest more of one's energy in work at the expense of family."

3.  Negative Media Influences: "The growing influx of destructive images and messages into the home."

4.  Lack of Communication: "The increasing abbreviation or near elimination of meaningful family member interaction."

5.  Financial Pressures: "The chronic misuse of debt and/or mismanagement of financial resources."

6.  Lack of Discipline: "The death of respectful behavior as a norm in our schools, churches, and families."
7.  Lack of a Father Figure: "The absence of a father in the home or lack of strong participation in the family."

8.  Busyness: "The participation in numerous activities crowding out quality family fellowship."

9.  Divorce: "The ongoing wave of broken marriages and families both within the church and without."

10.  Anti-Christian Culture: "The stripping away of Christian heritage and traditional values."

Wednesday, 23 May 2012

What are your kids watching on TV ?

Do you think is important to supervise what our kids are watching on TV, especially to look on the age restrictions of the programs they intend to watch? Is it t of importance or what? How do we make sure that our kids only watch programs that will help them and not promote violence or promote sex in a bad manner.........

Monday, 21 May 2012

Would you date and stay with some1 who is overweight?

In a survey conducted by MSNBC.com and Elle magazine, more than 31% of men said they dumped an overweight partner compared to 12% of women, so does this mean women are more forgiving than men when it comes to dating people who are out of shape? Would you date and stay with some1 who is overweight? Or have you been dumped for being overweight?

Sunday, 20 May 2012

Are You Living A Passion For Life? Balanced Lifestyle with Victor Chauke


Follow Your Heart. Always trust your heart. Your brain will want to keep you realistic, but your heart will always follow its passion.
Live Your Truth. Why convince yourself that you love your job when you don't? Why tell yourself that you enjoy the cold and snow in the east when your desire is to live in a warm weather climate. Live your truth...live what you love.
Take a Stand For Your Greatness. Be bold in what you want. Name it and claim it! I know for me, I wasn't able to have greatness in my life until I stopped traveling down the middle of the road and chose a certain path. You know when you travel down the middle of the road, not quite sure of your decisions or not wanting to make one, you get run over! Take a stand for yourself today!
Make a decision. Yes! You have the ability to make a decision. So many opportunities are lost from lack of decision. It's amazing to me how many people say that they want an abundant life, yet aren't able to make a decision.
They wait for a sign telling them all the planets have aligned until they make a decision. Don't you see, nothing is ever perfect? You take what you have and make it work! But I can guarantee you will not create the life that you want if you can't make a decision.
Stare Down The Naysayers. There are people that love to try and steal your passion for life. When you are excited about a new opportunity such as a new class, moving away, or starting a business, the naysayers love to voice their opinion of all the negative things that could happen. You know the ones..."You'll waste your time. You'll lose your money. You'll be back."
These conversations will not serve you. From my experience this is one of the #1 reasons why most people don't stick with their new interest, they start having conversations with the wrong people. The conversations are all focused on what is wrong in the world and lack and limitation. We know from the Law of Attraction that we want to focus on what we desire. Stare down the naysayers and don't give them your energy!

Thursday, 17 May 2012

Companionship, Sponsorship or a Hunk???

When looking for a partner what kind would you prefer? One that sponsors (showers you with gifts and maintain you) or one that will just be a companion (comfort you and talk to you)? or the most handsome guy or most beautiful girl in town? Which one do you prefer when you are partner searching what turns you on in a guy or in a lady.......
 

What do you say when your friend’s partner is not looking Ayoba , in terms of style?

You drive over to your friend’s place to pick him/her and their partner up to an event….Before you leave your friend’s house you realize that , NO man, Your friend’s partner doesn’t look Ayoba , No swagger or No style ( or some Pink shorts and a green top like Van Dame on double impact)…..What do you do? Keep quiet or address the matter with your friend? Again what is a polite way of commenting around this issue or is it even your place to say something?


Wednesday, 16 May 2012

When should you and your partner get tested for HIV and Aids?

What would you say is the advisable waiting period before you raise the subject of getting tested for HIV and Aids to your new love?

Tuesday, 15 May 2012

Sneaking on your partner Cell Phone!

let’s take for instance your partner mistakenly leaves his/her phone behind at home and it happens you are at home that day, would you use that opportunity to go through his/her phone to see most dialed numbers or his/her text messages...or will you switch off the phone and put it away until he/she knocks off? Or you will just simply tell yourself that what you don’t know won’t hurt you, what will you do in a situation like this?

Monday, 14 May 2012

Do you think Primary School learners starting with grade 6 should have winter school programs?

What do you think about  the suggested idea of having a winter school programs for primary school learners to help them improve the numeracy and literacy skills ? ..…..Do you agree that it’s not such a bad idea? Or should we leave winter school programs to high school learners?


Sunday, 13 May 2012

"Managing Debt - Take back control" Balanced Lifestyle with Victor Chauke


Stop increasing your debt. If you have any credit cards that are maxed out, cut them in half. If you have more than one remaining credit card, cut them up. When you finish, you should have no more than one credit card. Also cut up any "convenience" cards, such as gas cards, department store cards, etc. You will use your one credit card only to buy "emergency things", and things that you know you will be able to pay off in a short amount of time until you can get your spending fully under control. 2
Record your spending. The idea of writing down what you spend is a concept most people find annoying at best and useless at worst. However, this is actually your key to getting out of debt. You're in debt because you spent money you didn't have. If you're like many people, your debt didn't come from one single huge purchase; it was trickles of spending amassed over time. Avoiding more debt starts with knowing what you are spending your money on. Each day for one month (at least), write down every penny you spend, no matter how small. 3
Categorize your spending. Categorize your monthly expenses into logical groups of "Must have," "Should have," and "Like to have." "Must haves" are things that will cause harm if you don't buy them, such as food, rent, medicine, pet food, etc. "Should haves" are things that you need, but can do without for a little while, e.g., new clothes for work, gym membership, etc. "Like to haves" are things that you don't need, but enhance your life, e.g., magazine subscriptions, newspaper, cable tv, weekly coffee with friends, IM on your phone, etc. By doing this, you'll have a good idea of what you spend your money on, and you'll be able to figure out where you might need to cut back on spending. You don't want to eliminate all of the "should haves" and the "like to haves," but take a look at those first. One of your expenses will be paying off your debt. You will want to always pay more than the minimum required, otherwise it will take an extremely long time to eliminate your debt. For example, a single credit card with just a $1,000 balance and 19% interest will take about five years to pay off by making only the minimum payment of $26. Paying the minimum, you will spend $1556.40, with the Total Interest Paid: $556.40. Paying only the minimum payment will equate to giving them 55% more than you actually borrowed.
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Make a budget based on your spending record. Write down the amount you spent in each category of spending last month as you budget for spending for the next month. Don't sweat if you feel like the amount is too much. For now, just write it down. If you spent $250 on clothes last month, write it down. If you spent $200 on gas for your car last month, write it down. 5
Figure out your debt paydown fund amount. Looking at your new budget, you're going to be able to see areas where you might be able to cut back. You might also see categories where you need to increase spending. In doing this step, no one is suggesting that you come up with budget amounts that are unlivable. Think about going on a diet. If you try to restrict your calories excessively, what's the first thing you want to do? Krispy Kreme here you come, right? The key here is to be realistic. Are you paying money for a gym membership you never use, despite your best intentions? What about the $4 a day, every day, morning coffee you get before work, or your 5-cans-of-Diet-Coke-a-day habit? Chances are, your budget has some fat that can be trimmed. At the end of this exercise, you should have come up with a figure, a number of dollars that can be put toward debt paydown. Make a note of this figure. Day-to-day, if you don't want to keep taking note of all your expenditures, just write down what you spend in the categories you are trying to cut back. This will give you a very clear idea of how well you are doing, and, if you know you're going to go over your budgeted amount, it may help you decide to hold back on a purchase. 6
Figure out how much you owe, to whom, and on what terms. Debt can often feel overwhelming because you really don't have a clear idea of how much in debt you really are. Gather your bills, and make a simple list or spreadsheet of all the debts you have. Write down all the pertinent facts, including name of the creditor, your total balance, your minimum monthly payment, and your interest rate. 7
Start paying it off. Take the debt paydown figure of money you trimmed from your budget in step 4, and apply it to debt repayment. It's a good idea to prioritize the debts to which you are going to apply this extra money. Do you have debts that are past due and the creditors are hanging out on your door step demanding your first-born? Do you have debts with exceedingly high interest rates? Consider these top priorities. Let's say you determined in Step 4 that you could comfortably trim an extra $250 from your monthly budget to go toward paying debts, and that from your list of debts in Step 5, you owe $2,000 on a store credit card that has an interest rate of 19.5%, $1,000 on a Visa with an interest rate of 11.5%, and $25,000 in student loans with an interest rate of 5%. You would want to pay the minimum on your low interest rate debts, and apply the bulk of your $250 to the highest interest rate, in this case, your 19.5% store credit card, despite the fact that the actual cost of the student loan interest is highest. Also, consider that if you are already paying a minimum payment of $50 on that high interest card, if you start sending $300 per month (the minimum you are already paying plus your debt paydown figure), once it is paid off, then you will have increased your debt paydown figure. The next creditor can get the amount they are already getting plus the $300. Each debt gets easier to pay off than the last. 8
Wash, rinse, repeat. Just kidding, but you get the idea. This process gets easier. Once you've figured out your spending and what debts you owe, keeping it up gets easier and easier. You'll refine your budget over time, increase the amount of money you can pay yourself (see tip below) and the amount you can put toward debt. Continue to pay off each debt in your priority list. As you pay off convenience cards and high interest credit cards, call those credit card companies and cancel those accounts.

Thursday, 10 May 2012

From 120km/h to 100km/h, in order to save lives on the road….What do you think?

Transport minister Sibusiso Ndebele said he intends asking Cabinet to reduce the maximum speed limit from  120Km/h to 100km/h. Ndebele says studies conducted in other countries such as Australia such as Australia, where the speed limit is 110km/h , indicated that a reduction in the speed limit could save lives……However , The justice Project South Africa (JPSA) says speed is rarely the root cause of collisions on South African roads……How do you feel about this ? Good Idea? Bad Idea?

Wednesday, 9 May 2012

Showing love to the older generation

Looking at today's youth in society....are we doing enough to show older people love? We dump our kids on them....We expect them to nurse us when we’re sick and kicked out from the big cities.......Are groceries and money enough to show them love?

How would you react to an official jumping the queue?

My sister took her son in for vaccination this morning. While queuing, an on duty nurse jumped the queue to have her daughter vaccinated. It didn’t go down well with her and everyone else who had been queuing for hours! The Nurse justified herself ,saying that it was the only time she could have her daughter vaccinated and could not join the queue since she was on duty and had critical patience to attended to…..What would your reaction be if you were one of the people queuing? Would you just accept that she has benefits as a nurse on duty?

Tuesday, 8 May 2012

My parents...old age home...I'm torn!

There was an incident in the beginning of the August last year where about 18 elderly people died in a fire at an old age home and I remember following that story and thinking to myself: ‘their family members must be feeling like crap for taking them to that old age home’. I know it was really unfortunate for that particular incident and maybe not all old age home are bad. Moving away from the politics of old age home…what’s your personal feeling about taking your parents there? Maybe you have encouraging stories to share…So, do share...Is taking your parents to an old age home an option?

Tuesday, 1 May 2012

How would you deal with a situation such as this?

Your man (whom you have children with and hardly see due to distance) is coming over for a long overdue, pre-arranged visit to check up on you and the children. A relative (who happens to have known about this visit, since the day you arranged it with your man) decides to come and visit with her 6 year old child and stay for as long as your man will be visiting.   WHAT DO YOU DO IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS? How do you deal with such an intruder?