Do you think the tradition of publishing matric results should stop?

According to Young Communist League National Secretary Buti Manamela….”Matric results are a private matter and publishing them in newspapers put too much pressure on Grade 12 pupils, some of who committed suicide, so this practice should stop!”  If a student fails matric , not only will it leave them humiliated but it will also leave them to be the laughing stock in townships… so according to your opinions what do you think?

Is it really necessary to go all out for a child’s birthday?

There’s a trend of parents going all out when preparing for their toddlers birthday parties…..I recently saw pictures on facebook , of a 3 year old’s birthday party on point from the venue to the food, drinks and deco BUT Strangely it was attended by people who are in their twenties and thirties . Let’s be real….when you promise your 3 or 5 year old a birthday party yes they will be excited because in their world a party is a small get together with a jumping castle outside, 10 of their friends and lots of sweets. However I’m told that that most parents who do this use their kids’ parties as an excuse to flaunt their cash…Out of all the things in the world. Is it really necessary to go all out for a child’s birthday? Or is it a matter of , if you’ve got the money flaunt it?

Single to Married Life

My observation and Research by experts shows that single ladies, watch what they eat and make a point that they hit the gym almost every week. When you get engaged, you diet to ensure you fit into your wedding dress. But once you get married you pile on the kilos after getting married…..why is that ladies? Is it because we (Men) are not supportive? Men want to eat pap, meat and other heavy meals. Obviously it will look wrong if everyone has a different meal on the same dinner table?

Mistress

Are you comfortable being the mistress? Would you stay in a relationship with someone you love knowing exactly that he is in a relationship with someone or he/she is married?

Bullying Kids & Parents

As a parent what do you do if you find out that your child has being bullied at school and they told their teachers about it but they don’t seem to be doing anything about it?

FASHION 101 WITH OUMA TEMA

 The importance and the benefits of de-clustering. Most time we keep harboring old clothes and stuffing them up in our closets with the hope to one day put them on, lose weight for them to fit…..without knowing, you don’t have space for new items. What this does emotional and physically.

REMEDY 101 WITH SHIRLEY M

Ball Point Ink Stains

Spray hair spray on the stain, and then rub with clean dry cloth. The ink should disappear. Repeat, if not removed. This method works especially well on polyester.

Removing Gum from Hair

Apply petroleum jelly or peanut butter to the spot and work through the hair.

 

Love at first Sight

I am a 28 year old lady who is from around and I was sick recently and consulted in a certain surgery.

The doctor who helped me at the surgery was a handsome and down to earth guy and i fell in love with him immediately I can say it was love at first sight and I strongly believe that the feeling is mutual. The thing is i have waited for him patiently to make a move on me but he has not yet done that but he always find an excuse to call me or sms me to ask about my health.

I think that this guy is in love with me and i am also in love with him, my question is do I make the first move or do I wait for him. Will he think that i am desperate if I propose him?

SIMPHIWE MASIZA

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Parents & Social Network

Many couples complain that their spouses are always on social networks and sometimes it leads them to neglect their conjugal duties. Whereby kids are forced to do their homework’s on their own, bath themselves and etc.

In your opinion do you think that social networks affects family responsibilities time or what? Share with me your opinions and also tells me how we should make the social network work to our advantage and not affect our conjugal responsibilities.

Do you need to be married to have children?

Do we need to allow social norms and traditions to govern our lives? Do you necessarily have to be married to have children? Ladies, what happens if you biological clock is ticking and you haven’t found the right partner or Mr. Right? Is it right to Force a marriage because you want to have children under holy matrimony?

In this age and time everyone is entitled to marry any person he/she wants regardless of age, religion, race and etc but the divorce rate is going up dramatically.

According to your opinion do you think if the issue of arranged marriage can be practiced do you think it can decrease the rate of divorces in the country or the world at large? Share your views with me.....

FASHION 101

- Appropriate Make up for day and night
- The do’s and don’ts when applying makeup
- how to choose right shades for your complexion.
- What makeup should mean to us and what we make it to be

About TJ Malamule

[Inspirational Speaker, Author & Entrepreneur consultant}

TJ Malamule is a Nation acclaimed Inspiration speaker, conference facilitator and Master of Ceremonies. A native of Phalaborwa in Limpopo, TJ is a natural communicator with a passion to advance mental & spiritual transformation agenda.  He speaks for Blue Chip companies, Government departments, NGO’s & churches.

By creating ground breaking and different business philosophy's and ideas, TJ taps into the heart of the matter and tells it like it is! He talks to thousands of people every year. His humorous, content rich and energetic presentations will leave you asking for more!

He is a founder & Director of Rihanyo Group; that consists of Rihanyo seminars, Rihanyo Talent Management & Rihanyo IT consultants

He is an Author of a book call “Breath of inspiration” that sold over 1000 copies before Print

He Facilitated entrepreneurship events for City of Tshwane (10 Days road show), National Youth Development Agency (Global Entrepreneurship week) Enablis (Continuous events in Polokwane, Nelspruit & JHB) FNB (Continuous Entrepreneurship Breakfast)   and Libsa (Limpopo)

What they say about HIM

“He is a Rock star of Public Speaking”- Kgosientso Ramokgopa (Tshwane Mayor)

“A Leader in true sense, His speech is power” – Dr. Maureen Tong (Thabo Mbeki Leadership Institute)

“He is charming, Funny and relevent” – Rosie Motene (Actress)

“We need a South Africa that create more TJ’s” –Allon Reitz –(Reitz Corporation)

Gold Jewelries

Are yellow gold jewelries still an in thing? What is your first opinion when you see a person with yellow gold jewelries like a big gold bracelet, 2 or more yellow gold necklaces and also lot of gold teeth? I heard that you can tell what kind of lifestyle they are living by those jewelries. Let’s talk.........

Mini skirt march against women abuse

Let’s talk about the recent story about girls in mini skirt who were humiliated at a taxi rank. for me is really embarrassing when I think how far we have come as a black nation mean we have freedom of speech, freedom of movement and obviously freedom of wearing anything that makes you sexy. From way back white woman wear short skirt and dresses when going to town and they never experience what we black women experience. Share with me how you feel about the issue of ladies wearing minis and the planned march of the ANCWL which will take place tomorrow in Bree taxi rank named “Mini skirt march against women abuse”



Valentines Day Dilema

Today is Valentine’s Day; the 14^th of February. We find married man who lies to get into a relationship with single ladies they go as far as saying that I am just staying with her for the sake of the children or maybe we can’t afford a divorce etc. What is the worst excuse you ever had from a married man who tried to make a move on you? Or if you’re a married man what is the excuse you ever dropped to get a mistress?

DILEMA

What is the worst gift you ever received on valentine’s day? Share your views