Many couples complain that their spouses are always on social networks and sometimes it leads them to neglect their conjugal duties. Whereby kids are forced to do their homework’s on their own, bath themselves and etc.
In your opinion do you think that social networks affects family responsibilities time or what? Share with me your opinions and also tells me how we should make the social network work to our advantage and not affect our conjugal responsibilities.
In your opinion do you think that social networks affects family responsibilities time or what? Share with me your opinions and also tells me how we should make the social network work to our advantage and not affect our conjugal responsibilities.
Well I believe it does infact have a HUGE impact, as it can be very addictive. You will find people sacrificing groceries or lunchbox money to buy bundles so they can update, comment or chat on social sites! Time that was used to spend with spouses or children is now halved and added to social networking.
ReplyDeleteTo make this work for the better one should allocate time specially for social networking. Lets two hours a day. That two hours can be destributed throughout the day like 30min morning 30min noon and an hour in the evening. Of which I personally think its still extravagant but somehow its controllable. Time with your loved ones is very valuable and shouldn't be undermined or neglected. What the use of building relationships afar and lose those near you? Nhonga ya le kule a yi dlayi nyoka!
The experience I had with my wife on social networks; we would sit and not talking busy on the phones, the TV is on but no one is watching. Sometimes we would pay less attention to our child; you will just hear something breaking, is then we would jump off. Sometimes I would eat and not concentrate on what I am doing; and the gravy would spill
ReplyDeleteIt would also affect our cuddling time; as we would be on phones, forgetting about romance. We have concluded to use the phones on our spare times and give each other and the baby undivided attention.